The “kept” women status is often a fulfillment in life. When a man asks a women to be his wife she has anchored down her most desired wishes. The man we see worthy in our minds is ideal. Love or personal gain, a women hooking her catch, to later obtain “The Wife” status is golden.
Many women believe if they simply have great sex with a man, they can keep him. Ahhtttt …. No honey! You can suck, fu*ck, lick and drink the sweat off his balls and you won’t make the cut. Men live to have fun and they are very much gossip kings. The funny thing about a man, he will allow a women he’s merely attracted to, to believe she is #1 and he’s so into her, until he’s not. When the spark is gone, he’s checked out.
“DON’T CHASE, GET CHOSEN”
– Billion Dollar Tiff
Simple suzy wins
No doubt, a man will return just to see if you allow him continued access, but believe me, the women he’s ravished by is a simple Suzy! She may look very plain and not interesting but she has qualities other women don’t posses.
- She makes him feel important
- She listens to understand
- She takes care of herself mentally/physically
- She set clear boundaries from the start
- She has her own personal life and thrives to keep that for herself
- She is always in her feminine power
- She controls her emotions
- She is smart and can stand with him/by him
- She has made him feel validated
- She never emasculates him
Sex only!!
Most men give the impression that sex is their main priority when seeking a romantic partner. Men aren’t your little boys, they don’t need a maid, a chef, and they dislike women who are doormats. Yes, sex is a plus on the list but once he knows you’re an easy lay, he will only choose to lay with you.
P*ssy is everywhere! A man will pay if he wants it. Argue with me later on this, I’m right! Sex won’t keep a man, that’s why they’re side chicks, hookers and hoes. There is a difference in all three, FYI!
When you take away the need for a man to provide you with sex, he has nothing left but to be a provider. He will provide if he feels you are deserving. Are you deserving? Do you come across overly independent and aggressive? Most men love bitches anyway, but an aggressive mouthy women is never going to attract a man of good stature. The book “Why Men Love Bitches” gives a great deal of insight, check it out.
What is he thinking?
Men are notoriously hard to read, and it’s sometimes impossible to tell whether a man will commit or not. Then you have the “pick me” women who f*ck a man to his liking while allowing him to slut her out just to realize he was never that interested.
Men don’t commit for many different reasons but if you find the right man it is easy to get him to commit. The fear of commitment is the biggest issues that stops a man from committing to you. Unless of course you’re not commitment worthy. That would be a YOU problem! Fix it girl…
“A little naughty won’t hurt nobody”
– BILLION DOLLAR TIFF
SUMMARIZE
Only thing that keeps a real man is if he wants to be there for the keeping. Good sex, great that’s a plus in the right direction but too superficial for a man seeking out stability. Solid foundations with a women of good quality are the goals of an exceptional man. He is out there and what you’re looking for is looking for you. Stay soft, stay powerful and stay loving on you because the right man will spot you and cherish you.
XOXO – Tiffany ✨
