Women used to be valued for their skills and domestic prowess. Now, we’re valued for our looks and sexuality. It’s no wonder so many women feel cynical about marriage or are finding themselves in their later years still single.
Single life is not all bad. You don’t have to make compromises like you do in a relationship. She has the freedom to move about life in her own way.
Feminist, ehh to each is own. For a women like myself, I choose to live a soft life. A life where a man encourages me to be in my feminine power. Never aggressive and over authoritative, but light hearted, gracious and open to just being my greatest self.
When dating becomes a bore
The worst part of dating is not finding the attraction in any of your suitors. Dating without purpose? I guess some of us do that with ease. Simply passing time, while being entertained. I am past that phase! There is no profound joy going on dates with a man I see no attraction to. There is no benefit in wasting my time or his.
I had to ask myself, “what do I want from a man?” Is there anything specific? When I decided to dig deep into those questions, that’s when the lightbulb went off. I have become bored with my own personal life that I’ve found no enthusiasm in putting any real effort into meeting my match.
A High Value you, brings a high value man.
There is a difference between high value men and men who just look good on paper. High value guys are men who care about themselves and those around them.
Don’t settle for some man who doesn’t care about you, but instead spend time developing your own skills and hobbies so that you’ll be attractive to high-value men when you finally decide you’re ready.
“A girl should be two things, Classy and Fabulous.”
– Audrey hepburn
CONCLUSION
My honest belief, there is true unconditional love if we want and believe in it for ourselves. The main purpose is to become your most authentic highest self. Single women can find love without any trouble. Stay focused on meeting real high value men, and don’t settle for those who aren’t really right for you.
“I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls.”
— Audrey Hepburn